Showing posts with label Scare. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Scare. Show all posts

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Baby Tiley - Pre-Term Labor.


An extra post this week, but wanted to share with all of my lovely readers (just incase I don't make it to my next post either ;) )

Pre-Term Labor:
Well... Friday afternoon about 2:00pm I found a few blood spots. I decided to take a nap and see if anything else came of it. At about 5:30pm I found more blood so called the hospital who said to come in to get checked out. After I got off the phone, about 10 minutes later, I started getting some cramps so I called my mum to take me to the hospital incase Tim was late home from work.
Tim ended up coming home about 30mins later so I got my mum to meet us at the hospital.
When I arrived at the hospital, it turned out my 'cramps' were actually early contractions and coming about every 15 minutes, they found that the bleeding was from my cervix thinning, which is fine, but there was quite a bit of blood. I was also one centimeter dilated. I was in very early labor.
Because I was only 36 weeks, they wanted me to stay (where they would normally send someone in so early labor back home). I was moved into a maternity room to watch my contraction progress.
My husband and mum stayed for awhile but weren't aloud to stay the night.
At about 12am, now Saturday early morning, the contractions went to about every 5 minutes and was starting to get fairly painful and consistent. I had two panadol's. They were still consistent at 1:30am, so I was moved to a delivery room on the labor ward. I texted my mum for her to come back, and she arrived about 2:30am.
We turned off the lights and tried to rest with my contractions still consistently 4-5 minutes apart. I couldn't sleep at all, and the midwife continued to offer me sleeping tablets (triazepam). At 6am I finally said yes to the sleeping tablets to try and get some rest, but that was unfortunately terrible timing because just after I had the sleeping tablets, by about 10 minutes, my contractions got bad.. very quickly. They became every 2 minutes apart and VERY painful.
We were convinced that it was time to call everyone that it was a go-ahead now. I got a catheter put in my hand ready for some anti-biotics because labor was well and truely established. I told my husband to come back in, by sending him one word text messages.. I was in so much pain, that's all I had the energy to do. I told him to call the family members too. He arrived about 7.15am.
After about two hours of these contractions I had two panadeine forte. I had actually asked for more panadol and the doctor insisted I take panadeine forte instead, because he believed the contractions were about to get much worse.
I had another physical check at around 8.30am.... and was still only one centimeter dilated. I was not dilating.
My dad had now arrived, because my husband had called him earlier. Now, apart from my contractions, I was just not progressing, so they were going to send me back to my original maternity room.
After the midwife returned I asked her if I could just finish up at home. If I was still only one centimeter it's going to take a LONG time and I could get some sleep at home. The doctors didn't want me to go, but the midwife asked for me and they decided to let me go home.
At home they were still painful but started dulling down about 12:00pm, so I went to sleep. When I woke at about 1:00pm I had about 6 or 7 continues sharp contractions and that was it, so I went back to sleep about 2:00pm. I woke again at 4:30pm feeling incredibly sick... realising I hadn't eating ALL day. Contractions had become very mild too... almost at no pain but my stomach was still tightening. Some leaving a sting. After eating (and deciding it was time to finalise my hospital bag) my contractions had finally completely stopped at around 8pm. So that was it... everything had finished... I am still pregnant, baby is still happy inside my belly but we are almost certain he will come before his due! A doctor even said it could take a few days or a week.

If you don't see any regular post's for a while, here's why!

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Baby Tiley- 30 Weeks


Tiley This Week:
Baby's lungs are almost fully developed now, so are his eyebrows and eyelashes! His around 40 cm. The growing length will slow down soon and he will only grow another 10 cm, or around about; his weight will keep increasing a lot though! His now weighing in at about three pounds and I can certainly feel it! It's getting hard to turn and move around and stand up from sitting down. I can't imagine what it's going to be like in 10 weeks time especially since he will gain about half a pound a week till 38 weeks!! Tiley's head is now 8 cm in diameter and his little tootsies are 6cm long.
An interesting fact this week is Tiley can now see LIGHT and distinguish between day and night. His eyes will follow a light.

Indigestion:
Wow, the third trimester indigestion has really set in. When it first made the appearance it kept me awake all night because I had nothing to help me but now I have my best friends Quick Eze and Rennies by my side all the time!

Complications:
Wow, what a week it's been! I debated if I should write about what were dealing with at the moment because I have so many readers - I don't know who they are. But this is part of my journey, if its a good outcome or not, it's still something I've have to face.
Last night I called up the hospital due to a significant reduced fetal movements that last two days, they told me to go to the labour ward to get checked, just to be safe.
I was put on a heart monitor and a movement counter. As I've mentioned before he squirms and kicks to try and get away from any doppler or ultrasound so he moved the most he had in two days! It was so nice to feel the movements again :). We also had an ultrasound to see him and all was fine. I got to make out his hands and fists on this ultrasound :). His movements have made up for it today and his back to his active self, I was so pleased everything was fine.
BUT we found out something quite unexpected.
When I arrived I did a urine sample and they also checked my blood pressure throughout the night.
I have protein in my urine and my blood pressure has risen alot, which has been fine all pregnancy. I was told that it looks like I have pre-eclampsia but will need to go back on Friday and Monday to check my blood pressure. I also have to go back to the hospital to get checked if I develop anymore symptoms. While researching pre-eclampsia I realised that there are more symptoms that I have, and how serious it is. If your not sure what pre-eclampisia is, check out the Preeclampsia Foundation website.

 I will update more next week but please keep me in your thoughts.

Football Tipping:





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What does football tipping have to do with our dear little boy? (Yes, we are typical football parents-to-be!)
Well, at the start of the football season Tim & I made a deal. Whoever bet each other at the footy tipping got to choose what team Tiley goes for (or what team colours he gets to dress up in and we 'pretend' his cheering for). Unfortunately I NOW recognise what a stupid deal it was because Tim has bet me!  Baby boy will go for Geelong :(

Tiley's Name:
Tiley's baby shower is now only days away and one of the games that will be played at the baby shower is about guessing bubs name. Some people secretly know but stay tuned next week to find out what the little man will be called.

Ideas For The Hospital Bags:
I guess our hospital trip has kicked my butt into gear, I'm now going to organise my hospital bag sooner then I wanted, so here's a list of what I'm going to pack:
This is for a 48 hour stay. I haven't asked the hospital how much they provide yet, so this is as if they don't provide anything.

For Tiley: (in the nappy bag)
-3 Pairs of socks.
-4 Singlet in 0000
-5 face washers/burp cloths
-1 pair Booties
-1 pair Mittens
-Beanie
-3 0000 Grosuit
-2 0000 Bodysuits
-3 0000 Outfits (First outfit & going home outfit)
-1 Blanket
-1 Muslin Wrap
-Disposable Nappies
-Wipes
-Bags for soiled nappies
-Apricot Oil
-Knitted Jacket
-Photo Shoot items

For Mummy: (in a suitcase)
-Birth Plan
-What to expect book & Purple book.
-Purse (Private health card, ID & medicare care, change) *last minute
-Mobile Phone *last minute & Phone Charger *last minute
-Charged Camera, Camera cord & SD Card.
-List of numbers to call/text.
-Asthma Puffer *last minute
-Hot water bottle.
-Nursing Pads & Maternity Pads
-Dressing Gown
-Snacks & Sports Drinks.
-2 Pairs Of PJ's & Slippers
-2 Tops
-Soft Toilet Paper
-2 Pairs of Trackpants.
-1 Jumper.
-Comfortable Underwear (lots) Maternity Bra and Winter Socks.
-Plastic Bags
-Deodorant, Shampoo, Conditioner, Moisturiser, Massage Oil, Hair Ties, Face Washer, Toothpaste, Tooth Brush, Lip Balm, Foundation & Comb
-Pillow
-Exercise Ball *last minute
-Lanosh Nipple Cream
-Acid less Urine Tablets
-Tennis Ball
-Ugg Boots & Thongs

Ahhhh seems so much!! (and dare I say, it is too much?... first time mum + labour jitters = organisation) Now I have a list I know what I need to buy.

10 Things I Can't Stand People Saying:
I think ladies forget what it's like to be pregnant.. so let me remind you of what not to say to a pregnant woman. I've had every one of these statements... and some over the last few days so I thought I would tell the world ;)...
  1. GET USE TO IT.
    I know there is hard times ahead, I'm not naive.
  2. GET AS MUCH SLEEP AS YOU CAN.
    People like to remind you that you won't get any sleep when the baby is born, and they think they are the only people who have ever told you.
  3. YOUR GETTING BIG.
    Be careful about how you word those so called compliments. Just tell me my belly's getting big, not 'me' ;).
  4. YOU HAVE NO IDEA.
    I know I'm a first time mum and I probably have no idea of things to come, but ruuudee...
  5. YOU WANTED THIS.
    Of course I want a baby... but doesn't mean I wanted the pain...
  6. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO BE LIKE IN MONTHS TO COME?
    I've also had 'well if you can't cope with this, how can you cope with labour?
  7. YOU CAN'T DO/EAT THAT!
    There is 100 and 1 rules to follow, and everyone has an opinion on which ones to follow.
  8. I HOPE YOU HAVE A GIRL/BOY.
    Wow, there's nothing more rude I think. I didn't get pregnant to fulfill other's hopes.
  9. ARE YOU HAVING TWINS?
    AKA you can't be that fat with just one baby!
  10. ARE YOU GOING TO HAVE A NATURAL BIRTH?
  11. Nooo I'm going to be really unnatural when I give birth.

10 weeks till Tiley's due!!

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Baby Tiley- 11 WEEKS

My quote of the week:
"I don't think I have crazy pregnancy lady hormones, I think it's just a lack of cigarettes & wine..."

Our Scare:
I spent the last couple of days debating if I would include our hospital scare in this weeks blog. I had wrote down every single detail but am just going to keep it short.
It is now apart of my pregnancy journey but not something I would like to dwell on.
Thursday morning I woke up after a horrid dream that I was bleeding, it was the second dream like that this pregnancy so it didn't scare me but not nicest thing to think of when you wake up. Then I went to the toilet and their was the blood, for real.. It wasn't till the afternoon that I realised I dreamt about bleeding the night before.  After two miscarriages we thought the worse but hoped for the best.
 It was a really scary day for us, especially waiting all day for an ultrasound.
We went to the hospital at 8:45am to be told at about 2:00pm that we can't get an ultrasound till Monday but the nurse did one anyway (out of the complete goodness of her heart just to give us reassurance that the baby was okay - she was not trained to give an ultrasound or anything)
So at about 2:30pm we saw our baby.

Our gorgeous, active, somersaulting, star jumping baby with two arms, two legs & a fast beating heart. & that's all we wanted. I was in tears. I couldn't believe we had such bad outcomes with the others and now finally we have a healthy, strong baby!! I couldn't see much because I was crying so I keep asking Tim what it was like. He said that it was so clear he could see every little arm and leg.. It was good for him to experience something extra that I didn't, as us ladies get the first kicks, butterfly's.. all the amazing things the fathers don't get. But I really wish I was brave and saw the baby clearly!!
I'm actually looking forward to the ultrasound on Monday because I know everything will be okay & we were told we couldn't have a 12 week ultrasound, so this will be like our 12 week ultrasound.

We wont find out where the bleeding came from till Monday with a proper ultrasound and then I will see the obstetrician on Tuesday. The bleeding has stopped & I have been resting the last couple of days so I'm feeling alot better. I was very emotional- my blood pressure has gone from 110/79 during the pregnancy to 150/110 on Thursday, so I really needed to calm myself down and relax. For the baby.

What Tiley Would Look Like:
This is what Tiley would have looked like in the ultrasound... So much like a baby, can you believe it? Measuring at about 4 & 1/2 - 5 CM and has grown a whole CM just this week!! We were just discussing how HUGE Tiley's got. & then had to laugh. Yep Tiley has grown so, so, so much but still is so, so, so tiny. It was surreal on the ultrasound compared to the 6 week ultrasound.. Tiley really did look like a tiny human!!

New Doctor:
I went to see my new doctor this week too. The whole time I was waiting I was thinking.. okay the other doctors isn't that bad, the other doctor's waiting room is cleaner, the other doctor runs on time, the other doctor surgery's chairs are more comfortable... and then the wonderful doctor called me and gave me loads and loads and loads of information.. ohhh such a blessing!! She also sent a referral to an Ob and Gyno, answered all my questions, really took the time for me.. she didn't even know me & when I said I was looking for a new doctor for some antenatal care she was so so excited!! I am very happy with this doctor! (They just need a cleaner and more comfortable waiting room!!- but hey, what can you expect for Mowbray!)
Morning Sickness:
My morning sickness is very on & off.. alot better then it has been.. crossing my fingers that it will be gone next week. Please Please PLEASE. Ah what happened to the 'glowing' and the 'enjoyment'...

Pregnant In Heels:
I've been watching Pregnant In Heels...
These are all million dollar glamorous ladies having a fabulous pregnancy and here I am hugging the toilet every morning. I really want this to be a great time so I'm trying to take some tips. I don't have to be a frumpy pregnant woman.. I can be stylish, pretty & even if I'm not blessed with a pregnancy glow, I can make myself glow. I don't have to let the whole world know that I'm so sick, tired and my hairs completely changed, I have restless leg syndrome anyway and it's got worse already and I've put on 1/2 a kilo (Originally put on 2 but lost 1 & 1/2).


So I can't believe next week I will be finally 12 weeks!! and then another week & I will be in the second trimester :)

So so proud of our little one doing so well. And I'm so in love!
29 more weeks!!!