Push Present.

Did you partners buy you a PUSH PRESENT?
Mine didn't! So I told him I want two for the next one, and I'm making him read this post to make it loud and clear about all the ideas I want!

Push Present: A gift from the father/second mother of the child to the mother of the child as an appreciative thank you for going through 9 months of pregnancy, labour and delivery to give them a child. A reminder that they really do appreciate what you've gone through/done to have the baby.
A nice reminder too, when your child is screaming all night, that you can look at something and be reminded that you are appreciated.

When Jydan had bad reflux and I was getting three hours of broken sleep a night and non stop screaming all day, and loads of vomiting washing and poop explosions to clean up, I must say, it would have been really nice to have a little 'thank you' gift.. but nope.. I didn't even get flowers!! He filled me jug up with water and ice a few times, that was nice of him, since I just had major surgery and couldn't move. ;).
Should I have expected them?
Well I must say, I was pre occupied. It hasn't occurred to me till now, 13 months later... now I'm like, hang on a minute?
Yes, the child is the MOST precious gift.. but the child is hard yakka! As bad as it sounds, I would have like that 'you did such a wonderful job' present.

So, Tim, if you're reading, here is my push present wish list ;)

Massage -

Postnatel massage, uhh! Bliss! and time to myself. Don't forget Tim that I need double the time, two hours ;). I just may sleep through it, lol.








Birth Stone Bracelet -





Gorgeous bracelets filled with birth stones. I love this. This is probably on the top of my wish list.





Guess Watch -

I really want a guess watch! I've wanted one for ages.. pretty good opportunity for me to get one I think ;)








Eternity Ring -

I LOOOVE this eternity ring! It's perfect! We are doing the whole eternity thing when we have been together for 5 years, but if we change our minds or I give birth close enough to 5 years, this could be a combined anniversary/birth gift ;)





Birth Stone Earrings -

Love this idea and they look so divine!! Definitely on my wish list.










Peter Alexander Pajamas -

I adore peter alexander!! They are the best pajamas. I spend alot of time after birth in my PJ's but still want to look half respectable when all the visitors come, so comfy cute PA PJ's plllease!! I'll need about 5 sets too please ;)




Cleaner -

I think I would appreciate a cleaner above ANYTHING!! A cleaner to come every 3 or so days so I can enjoy my little darling more with stressing. Things piled up so much with Jydan, I would love to not have that stress.







Did you get anything as a push present? What are some other ideas I can put on my wish list?